Several months after writing The Belief Formula, I was visiting with my parents and we were speaking about the power to create what we want with our thoughts or prayers. I was telling them that there are no limitations to what a person can create with their imagination; if a human can imagine a thing, it is a possibility. If a human continues to imagine a thing, it becomes a certainty.

I began to give examples of things we take for granted, but were thought up, imagined, and created by humans who believed in something that did not yet exist in the physical world. The airplane existed as a mere fantasy for a very long time before gaining enough mass to become a physical reality. Once people could see it, and therefore believe in the new technology, advances in aircraft technology literally skyrocketed - no pun intended. Belief is the attractive force which brings together the very real, physical mass of our new realities.

As we spoke, my niece, Jessica, came into the room and listened for a few minutes before asking, “So, you mean I could pray for a car and get it?”

I answered, “Sure; but it isn\’t likely to fall out of the sky and land in your driveway.”

Jessica, who I call “Jessie,” said, “You mean a real car? Not a toy or something like that…”

I said, “Yes, anything you want. \’Whatsoever you desire…\’ But there is a certain way to go about asking for things so you will be more likely to get what you want. If you do it right, you can not only get a car, but the exact car you want!”

Jessie asked, “How\’s that?”

At which point I explained to her how such things are created. I told her to be specific and imagine exactly the car she wanted; and to imagine herself already in the car. I told her to spend time telling herself she already had this car, and to imagine what it looked, smelled, and felt like to be sitting in the car. I also told her to spend time feeling how it felt in her heart, and how much fun it was, to have a new car and to have the freedom and good times that come with a new car while imagining being around the car with friends, or going fun places in her car.

Most important of all, however, is the positive attitude with which you think these things. Feeling the joy in your heart is what creates an attractor pattern which leads you to have ideas, thoughts, words, and actions which are designed to take you to the answer to your prayer, or bring your answer to you. Think about what you want and then feel the joy of that reality in your heart. Give thanks for what you ask - as if you have already received it. That is the secret.

Then, you must “listen” and pay attention to the things around you. At the time, Jessie was only fifteen years old and a new car wouldn\’t have done her any good at that moment. Having plenty of time before a car is really needed, it is reasonable that God, the Universe, or whatever you believe answers prayers, might start off by sending a job her way - perhaps allowing her to save enough money to get just what she wanted. Who knows? Just keep your attention on what you want, and keep your Spirits up!

There was a story I heard about an older lady who needed a new car. A church member heard of her need and approached her after church. The church member told the older woman that he had heard she needed a car; and he had one that he thought would work just fine for her. “Only problem,” he said, “is it needs a new part and it will cost $120.00.” The woman replied, “Oh, I don\’t have enough money for the repairs - much less the car.” To which the man responded, “You don\’t understand; I\’m going to give you the car. I just have to get this part fixed first and that\’s just how much it costs… I was intending on paying for the repair and giving you the car if you still need it.”

So, even though cars aren\’t likely to fall out of the sky, just because you pray for one, doesn\’t mean they can\’t or won\’t. “All things are possible to he who believes.” To truly grasp the power of that statement requires a wide-open mind; and I think she got it. I talked to her for a while more and then she said that she understood what to do and was going to start praying for a red Ford Mustang with a leather interior! I said, “Way to go! You dream your dream the way you want!” And that was it.

Within a week, Jessie was offered a job, but she didn\’t want this particular job. Within a few more weeks, she was offered another job which she tried, but found too boring; so that was it for the jobs. But she didn\’t stop thinking about the car.

At a family gathering, a month or so later, Jessie was talking to her cousins about what we had spoken about and how she was praying for a car. She said, “Uncle Pete said all I had to do is think about what kind of car I wanted, imagine myself in it, and believe that it\’s mine; and I\’ll get what I ask for.”

Unfortunately, she was met with little in the way of encouragement. One well-meaning adult told Jessie that there were lots of things that had to be done, and that she had to have a certain amount of money to pay for certain expenses she might not be thinking about. And, of course, there was the insurance and gas she wasn\’t thinking about having to pay for, etc…

When she told me what happened, I reminded her of the stories in the Bible where Jesus healed a person and told them to “go and see that no man knoweth…” I explained to Jessica that all this advice means is that some people will try to convince you that miracles are not possible just because they forgot how to “believe as a child.” Don\’t let someone else\’s “realism” kill your belief. I asked if she still thought she could just imagine herself in her new car; and she said, “Yes.” I said, “Then why not pretend? If you get to a point where you just have to have a car and you don\’t think your prayer has been answered, get a car if that\’s what you want to do; but in the meantime, there are lots of ways to get a car. Keep looking for opportunities in front of you; and expect your prayer to be answered.”

A few months later, just before Jessie\’s 17^th birthday, my parents informed me that one of my sisters, and her husband, had decided to get a new vehicle and had also decided to give their old car to Jessie as a birthday present, rather than trade the car in! When I asked what kind of car it was, my dad told me it was a jeep. I said, “Well, I guess she must have eased up on the Red Mustang thing;” and my dad said, “Well, that\’s the interesting part…”

“Every day, as I took Jessie to school,” my dad continued, “we would pass this used car lot; and they had a jeep sitting out in front. Each morning as we passed that jeep, Jessie would say, \’That\’s my Jeep; that\’s my Jeep.\’ And now she has a Jeep!” She declared it; and now it is so.

The really neat thing was that, when they gave her the car, they had it checked out and fixed up so she would have a good, reliable car; and, they put a bow and ribbon on the car and parked it in front of the school where she comes out in the afternoon. It seems that cars fall out of the sky more often than I thought they did!

Jessie is off at college now - on the other side of the state - and that Jeep is serving her well on her way to, and from, home, classes, and wherever else her college experience takes her. And, best of all, it is a constant reminder that “All things are possible to she who believes!”

Pete Koerner, author of The Belief Formula
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A friend of mine called last night and it was obvious that she was very upset. She had recently broken her wrist and told me that her team leader at work was trying to get her fired for missing work. Apparently her team leader had spoken with several other people concerned (human resources, personnel, etc…) and, for whatever reason, she had convinced them that my friend just shouldn\’t come back to work. My friend didn\’t think she was being treated fairly, and called to ask if I knew if it was legal for them to treat her that way; after all, all she wanted was to meet with the head of human resources to discuss how soon she could return to her job after breaking her wrist.

You might say that there\’s two sides to every story; but it really doesn\’t matter. All that matters is what you want and what you think about. Unfortunately for my friend, we live in a right-to-work state and anyone can be terminated at any time for any reason. But that doesn\’t matter either if you know what you want and know how to think about it.

I told my friend to forget what was going on and think about what she wanted: A meeting with the head of human resources and to go back to work. I suggested that, when she went to bed, she mentally rehearse what she would say to the head of human resources. I told her to lay down and close her eyes and think about the person she wished to speak with; then, send him her best intentions and imagine the meeting going just as she hoped it would. In other words, pray about it - pray about how she wanted the meeting to go. Ask for what you want and imagine it is real. I told her to be upbeat and positive and expect to get everything that she wants and even more - and then go into the meeting with a positive attitude and love in her heart.

The next day she did indeed get her meeting; and she called me afterwards to give me the good news. She was well received by the director of human resources and her records were adjusted to reflect that her leave time had indeed been handled properly and the people who gave her a hard time were informed that my friend was in fact entitled to what she was asking for. My friend was also told that she could come back to work the next day if she wished, and that she could immediately begin an advanced training class that she had missed due to her injury. Not only that, she was given a better job, and a better desk - with a NEW team leader. Everything she wanted - and more!

Problem one day; prayer that night; solution the next day; and a new, better reality the day after that. That\’s quick; but it can be even quicker than that. So don\’t worry about the problems you are faced with; imagine the solution, or resolution. What you think about you get. “Ask and you shall receive.”

Pete Koerner, author of The Belief Formula

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Ok let me start with this statement: It’s not the money that you want, it’s the freedom that comes with it!

Money is just a pile of paper, the same exact thing as the dead leaves in your backyard. If I was to hand you a big garbage bag full dead leaves and tell you that each of them is worth 1000$, you’d go crazy! So my point is, we’re focusing on the wrong thing here. We’re wishing and trying to attract the wrong thing. Because it’s not the actual money that gets us all excited, it’s what we can do with it. Money is just paper to the Universe. It’s no big deal!

Picture this if you will: You just lost or quit your job, and you have those huge luxury house payments (which you should be grateful for the house by the way so you can get to keep it!), the dog needs glasses, your daughter wants a cell phone, you just got a brand new membership at the gym and you’re tied in a 3 year contract, etc. So obviously, you don’t have any money coming in, and wondering what you’re going to do about it. Your poor brain is yelling: I NEED MONEY FAST!

So the first thing you’re going to do, after learning about the Law of Attraction, is wanting to attract more money into your life, but here’s the problem. After reading the list of things that you need, how do you feel about the word “money”? Not too good I assume. The word “money” for many of us brings about a feeling of fear, scarcity, limitations, lack, stress, worry, hard work, etc. How do you expect to attract the things you want in life if those are the feelings you’re experiencing?

One word for you: “Stop!!” Oh dear God stop thinking about the money, and start thinking about the things you can buy with money, the bills you can pay, the trips you can plan, the gifts you can buy and the joy of the people who will be happy to receive them, the freedom you’ll get of having no debts, paid off credit cards. Wow! Now how does that feel?

The key here is to flow positive energy, and usually, when you think about money, you flow negative energy. Don’t go there! It’s as if you’re trying to bluff the Universe by saying: “Oh money (just paper remember?) makes me feel so good, it brings me joy, I want more of it (still just the paper)”, when the Universe darn well knows that money doesn’t make you feel good right now, the positive energy is not there. But you won’t be bluffing anyone when you say “oh it feel soooo good to have the freedom that comes with having a lot of money, yay!” Now you’re on the right track.

Feel good about the whole thing. Those feelings will send out the magnetic vibes that will attract that “want” straight your way with no detours. But feel good you must! Think of it as if you didn’t need any money to get what you want in life, all you had to do was feel good about it. Of course the Universe might send money your way for you to do all those pleasant things because that’s how society works, but you won’t care, because you will get exactly what you want!

See, if you create a want and associate it with a “need” instead of “joy”, you’ll just get exactly what you ordered: more of “worries because of no money”. So unless your idea of money is joyful and fun, forget the whole concept of money and focus on what you can get with money, and I guarantee you that you won’t even have time to turn around to see the results. This is truly magical.

You can’t order “money” from the Universe. I don’t know anybody that’s passionate about a pile of paper. For money to come in, you need things you want to buy or things you want to do with that money. Focus on that! You need a stream of positive energy to create some outlets for the money to come in. If you’re goal is to pay off your debts, then for God’s sake don’t focus on the money! That was the problem in the first place!

Focus on how good it feels to have no debts at all and being able to do whatever you want! If you need 30,000$ to build the master bedroom of your dreams, then focus on the bedroom, how you’re going to decorate it, the smell of the candles on the night stand, the softness of that silky red comforter, the fun times you’re going to have by relaxing in it, and the money will come running your way before you can say “ka-ching!”.

Focus and be grateful for what you already have (like your house) and other things that you want, so that you can get more of it! What will happen is the Universe will find a way, either with money or whatever else, because the “how” is not yours to figure out, as long as you’re happy!

The Universe sees and uses money as a “way” of getting you to your dream. So don’t worry about the money, it will be there, meeting you where your dreams are.

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Think about this: It is impossible to feel good when you are thinking bad thoughts. Your only responsibility in this life is to increase your vibrational output, to feel good, and that’s it. It is through raising your vibrational consciousness that everything good that you have ever wanted will come to you. If it is your desire to change the world, so to speak, then it all starts with you. You have no control over the vibrational frequency of others, only yourself. For example, it is not possible to sit and watch the news all day long and feel good. Your thoughts are going to be based on what you are observing and if you are watching stories about murders, rapes, and bombings, as well as, all manner of negativity then this is what you are feeding your mind and these are going to become your dominant thoughts–producing fear, worry, and doubt.

When fear becomes your dominant thought, it is impossible to feel good, to feel safe and comfortable. Start consciously paying attention to what you are observing. I used to be a CNN junkie until I realized that it was impossible to feel good when all I was hearing and seeing everyday was mass negativity. But when I stopped watching it, I immediately began thinking good thoughts again and I felt so much better. It’s the same thing with being around negative people. Again, if someone is complaining all day, their negativity will rub off on you.

I’ve been asked, “Well, don’t you care about what’s going on in the world?” And my response is, “Of course I do, but I can’t fix the world, I can only fix me and by fixing me, I can begin to fix the world.” It all starts with you. If each and every individual on this planet would adopt the attitude that they will start with themselves, imagine what a truly wonderful world this would be. In order to give, you must first have it to give. If my thoughts are soaked in negativity, how can I possibly expect to make you feel better? I can’t! By starting with me, increasing my own positive vibrational resonance with the good things this universe has to offer, only then can I help another to do the same.

I used to think that all of this talk about positive thinking was a bunch of nonsense until I actually began to experience the benefits of doing so. But as Dr. Robert Anthony puts it, it’s not about positive thinking or negative thinking, it’s about Right thinking. In all cases, you must do what is right for you. I can hear someone saying, “How selfish!” And they would be right, but it is through this selfishness that selflessness is born. If you do anything out of guilt or fear, then you are doing no one any favors, especially yourself. It is only when you feel good about yourself that miraculous things occur–or what some would call miraculous. When in fact, when you feel good about yourself, all of your desires will come to you on a daily basis and this includes wanting to see others live a long, healthy, prosperous life. But you can’t do this for them; you can only do this for yourself. When your light begins to shine, you can’t help but shed light on others. My light is shinning right now. When you are in a place of truly feeling good, you can’t help but want the same for others.

But let me expand on that. I specifically said “truly” feeling good because this has nothing to do with your ego, your status, your money, your reputation, or others’ expectations of you. Truly feeling good has everything to do with what’s in your heart. It’s about feeling good about everything you do, no matter what others are saying about you or even thinking about what you are doing or not doing. It has nothing to do with helping someone else solely for your own accolades. It has absolutely nothing to do with what others will say or think about you if you do or don’t do anything. It has everything to do with feeling good about you. It has everything to do with trusting your own instincts, no matter what anybody says. If saying “no” to someone is truly how you feel in your heart, then say “no” and do not second guess yourself worrying about what they will think about you for saying “no”. Do not allow anyone to make you feel guilty or fearful for saying “no!”

There is no one more powerful than you in creating the kind of world you choose to live in. Strive for ways everyday to feel good about youself and when you truly feel good, you will become contagious. You might be saying to yourself, “Well, you don’t know what I am going through. It’s not that easy to forget everything and just feel good!” And my response to that would be, “Oh, but it is!” Even if you just start with five or ten minutes at a time, you can do this. Anytime you feel good, you are increasing your vibrational resonance and good things will just begin to happen for you. Don’t fall into the trap of worrying about How or When something will happen, just know that it will and when you begin to increase your vibrational output with the good things you want, all manner of good things will begin to happen; difficulties will just disappear, paving the way for more good things to come to you.

Here’s a place to start, try not watching the news for one week and in its place, watch something that makes you feel good. Listen to your favorite music. Immerse yourself in things that make you feel good. Think about things that make you feel good. In other words, be selfish! By doing this, you will notice a remarkable difference in how you feel…and that’s just the beginning! If you live with someone who is constantly negative, make the time to be by yourself, to find that good feeling place and dwell there for as long as you can. The more you do this, the easier it becomes.

So, you want to live in a better world, then you must know that it all starts with you.

Victoria Leal is the Owner of Reality Check. http://www.bravehost.com To find helpful information on how to live the kind of life you deserve, please visit: http://realitycheck.bravehost.com

The power of visualization in the law of attraction, or what is famously known now as The Secret, is not a new experiment. It is not something that is untried. For centuries, sages have been studying and utilizing the power of visualization to get what they wanted. It is a proven fact that whatever we visualize, we will most certainly get. We know it as the law of attraction and it works on magnetic energy.

In order to attract what you are after, you have to visualize, visualize, and visualize with specific details. If it is a new Mercedes that you want, you need to be clear about the model, the color, the interior, etc and have that picture registered clearly in your mind. You also need to specify when you want it because the universe needs to know the time frame in which to deliver your request. But be sensible when you play with time. You cannot request it to be delivered tomorrow because your intellect would say that is impossible.

You may wonder how the universe is going to deliver your new Mercedes with the current salary you are getting. But other factors come into play. You may suddenly earn a windfall, get promoted, or your business suddenly flourishes. Leave it to the law of attraction to work that out for you. All you need to do is to visualize the Mercedes parking in your driveway, or you driving it with the person you love sitting right next to you.

To work the power of visualization, you need to hold the picture clearly in your mind with every detail. Get a scrap book and paste a picture of the car on the first page and look at it when you make your visualizations. To make the visualization more powerful, buy something for the new car however small it is, like an ornament, a car decal, that you would place in the car once you get it. Giving your visualization real feelings is a powerful way to send the message to the universe. Your thoughts and the words that you use in your visualizations is powerful, but the greatest pulling factor is feelings or emotions. Put all three into force and you will certainly attain what you desire with great clarity.

Visualize at night before retiring as you lie in bed. Ensure that your body is aligned with the earth’s magnetic poles with the head of the bed pointing North, as this will magnetize your body and your thoughts. Be clear about the things that you want, or refer to your scrap book if you cannot picture it clearly. Ask the subconscious to deliver it to you and give it a timeline that is reasonable. Repeat this practice every night like a ritual. You have to repeat and repeat. Over the next few days or weeks, you may come across coincidences that would led you to believe your request is materializing. These are Alpha reflections, the universe’s way of affirming that what you had requested for, is being manifested.

In time, you will notice that you are being guided to take a certain form of action to attain the Mercedes. You must not hesitate or become pessimistic. Follow the hints and take action. These are the logical line of events that will lead you to the attainment of your goal. And before you know it, the gleaming new Mercedes is right in front of you.

Azmi Adnan is a writer and volunteer at a children’s shelter and enjoys working with under-priveledged children. Subscribe to his newsletter, available at this website, for interesting stories about the Law of Attraction, Success Principles, and on his works in helping children beat poverty.

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Applying law of attraction to the creative process is very much like baking a cake. You may know all of the ingredients which go into baking a cake but do you know the right formula or recipe?

The attraction process can be quite hard for many people because they simply do not have the right formula. Attraction should be easy once you fully understand the when, why and how to applying each step. Just like baking a cake you may have all the ingredients but if you do not have the right balance of the ingredients your cake could be an edible rock or a sloppy mess.

The attraction process is a perfect balance of internal and external ingredients all of which are a necessary part of the whole equation. Here are the three most crucial steps to the attraction process.

1)You must know the precise way to create and also live inside your holographic creation. You must bring what you want to attract into the present moment by observing it now. Even if it is not there you can begin to feel it into existence.

2)You must allow the creation to move into physical reality without obstruction from your present conditions. Your present reality is always competing with the new reality that you are now trying to create. This is by far the hardest part of the attraction process. If everything and everyone around you speaks of failure and fear you must rise to the awareness of victory and power and implant that new way deeply into your inner mind in such a way that it blocks out any part of the old limited believe of others.

3)You must also increase the power of your desire with greater energy so that it manifests a lot faster in the most powerful way. Increasing your energy is like placing gas into a tank of your car. The more fuel you have the faster and further you are able to go.

Apply these three steps to your desires and you have a winning combination for attracting anything you want.

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According to the Law of Attraction, when you think a thought or feel a feeling, you broadcast vibrations out into the Universe, which magnetically connect with people and circumstances of like vibration. In fact, you’re like a giant magnet pulling into your life whatever you focus on. Like a magnet, you draw people, things and circumstances into your life, which are in harmony with your dominant vibration. At every moment you draw to yourself the essence of what you predominantly think and feel.

You can apply this basic principle of the Law of Attraction to bringing out the best in others. For example, if someone snaps at you, criticizes you or disappoints you in some way, do you react negatively and add fuel to the fire of bad feelings OR do you wisely choose not to accept offense? There may be a strong tendency at first to react with hurt or sadness or anger because of years of practicing these responses, but, as the Law of Attraction teaches, it’s always better to focus on what feels good rather than what feels bad. So, instead, you might think - “Yeah, I don’t really like what they did, but I refuse to use it as an excuse to feel bad. I refuse to use it as a reason to disconnect from Well-Being.” If you determine to keep your vibration high and make feeling good the most important thing, you will refuse to relinquish your Well-Being for any reason whatsoever.

If you know in advance that you will be interacting with someone you find challenging, set your intention for the meeting to be enjoyable for both of you. Intend that - “We are going to really like each other. We are going to get along great.” Intend to see only the good in that person. Intend that, while you’re together, they will be at their best and you will draw out their good qualities. Even if you haven’t seen any evidence of their alleged good qualities for quite some time, know that they do exist and be determined to excavate them. Make it a treasure hunt. Admittedly it’s more of a stretch with some people than with others, so keep reminding yourself that everyone’s true identity is a brilliantly shining star.

If you resort to complaining, a vibration is activated within you that keeps you connected to that unpleasant other. The more you complain, the more vibrationally connected you will be. So, when you feel yourself becoming irritated with someone, remove your attention from the irritation and place it firmly on something that feels good. Imagine a rose bush. Do you focus on the flowers or the thorns?

When you are independently happy and secure in your ability to tap into your Wellspring of Well-Being, you will bring out the best in others and experience joyous relationships.

Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books - Dining at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire and Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction - http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/ebook.html are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/

“I have learned silence from the talkative; tolerance from the intolerant and kindness from the unkind. I should not be ungrateful to those teachers.” - Kahlil Gibran

Accord­ing to the Law of Attraction, we magnetize and attract to our­selves whatever we focus on. Like attracts like, birds of a feather flock together, etc. When you apply this basic principle of the Law of Attraction to relationships, it becomes clear that the wisest course you can follow is to live and let live. How glorious it is to live your life as you see fit and let others do the same. This simple idea goes a long way toward eliminating relationship problems. (Who knows, it may even be the answer to world peace!)

You are never free if your happiness, your vibrational status, depends on someone else’s behavior. As you become certain that your happiness depends on you and you alone, you become extremely attractive to others. Your vibration issues an invitation - “You can come and play with me. I don’t need you to behave in a certain way for me.” When you quit holding others responsible for the way you feel, your relationships will improve dramatically.

We are often the most critical of those closest to us because we expect our significant others to make us feel a certain way. Are you ready to let go of these impossible expectations? Are you ready to relieve your loved ones of that pressure? Remind yourself that the way you feel is your responsibility. When you are in control of how you feel, you don’t need others to change in order for you to feel better. Decide to look for what you DO like about your family and friends rather than giving in to the habit of noticing things you DON’T like. Look for what’s right rather than what’s wrong.

Birds of a feather, right? You attract relationships with people who match your vibration. You are always calling to and attracting birds of the same vibrational feather. Look at the birds in your flock. Do they uplift you? Are they closer to empowered or powerless? Do they prefer to praise or complain? You can learn a lot about the state of your own vibration by looking at the people in your life.

If you are less than impressed with some of your acquaintances, the answer is not to chase them away or try to reform them. Accept that the people in your environment are a mirror of your own life. Then have fun watching your relationships change as you raise your vibration. As you raise your vibration, either the other birds will be influenced by you and raise their vibration as well or they will fly away. As you change, your relationships will change. As you take responsibility for your own vibration, you allow others to take responsibility for their vibration. What a great philosophy - Live and let live!

Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books - Dining at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire and Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction - http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/ebook.html are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com

“We awaken in others the same attitude of mind we hold toward them.” - Elbert Hubbard

Are you aware that the way people treat you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself? It’s true. If you value yourself, others will value you. If you disrespect yourself, others will disrespect you. According to the Law of Attraction, your emotions offer continuous guidance to tell you whether you’re in the process of attracting what you DO want or what you DON’T want. When you feel good (love, joy, appreciation) your vibration is high and you’re a match to relationships that feel good. When you feel bad (angry, fearful, worthless) your vibration is low and you’re a match to relationships that feel bad.

As you raise your vibration by directing your thoughts to feelings of joy, love, and appreciation, you will feel good about yourself and you will attract wonderfully harmonious relationships. As you raise your vibration, the vibrations of those around you will also improve. Remember, you’re a magnet and you attract people who are a vibrational match to your dominant vibration.

Although you cannot control another person, you can choose which aspects of them to focus on. When you focus on their positive qualities, they will display their positive qualities with you. See them as you want them to be and you will bring out the best in them. With people as with circumstances - Take what you like and leave the rest.

See someone as great and they will be. Try praising rather than judging. Try complimenting rather than criticizing. Since everyone has the potential to manifest any quality and any vibration, simply decide which facet you would like them to express with you - then focus on that.

Here’s the foolproof formula for improving any relationship - from the ogre boss to the critical mother-in-law to the wayward child:

• Find as many things as possible to like and appreciate about them.
• Take your Energy away from complaining about what you don’t like about them and put it squarely on appreciating the aspects you do like about them.
• Keep your vibration high by deciding to feel good no matter what the other person is doing.

Follow these steps and, without fail, all of your relationships with improve.

Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books - Dining at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire and Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction - http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/ebook.html are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com

How many times have you been in the middle of visualizing when your mind takes on a mind of its own and begins to wander? It jumps from the image you are focusing on, to and image that has nothing to do with your visualization. Your mind offers opinions on what to do about everything… everything but what you are trying to focus on and put energy towards. And before you know it, visualizing on what you desire becomes the last thing on your mind. This is a common problem for many people.

This once was a common occurrence for my husband, Lee and I. When we noticed just how common, we embarked on some experimental methods to create a solve that we felt could work. Lo and behold, we soon enjoyed having great success with uninterrupted visualizations, thereby obtaining positive and faster results through visualizing and the Law of Attraction.

Here are some helpful tips that just might help you tame your mind monkeys.

1. Get creative. If you are visualizing the same picture every night and day, they can soon become both repetitive and boring for you. In practicing the Law of Attraction, it’s important to see and feel what you want through visualization, but only if you are truly feeling whatever it is. If what you believe you desire has become boring, with a complete lack of feeling, change your visualization to something that makes you feel joyful. Even if it may be something different from what you have been visualizing previously. The good feelings will elicit good feelings back to you courtesy of the Universe.

2. Even though you can have whatever you desire through the Law of Attraction, sometimes your survival self has a hard time believing it. It tells you all the reasons why you couldn’t possibly do it this way or that. An easy way to stop the survival self from telling you it just can’t work is to generate visualizations that the survival self can understand and could possibly manifest. Here’s an example: A client of ours kept having problems with concentration through her “quiet” time. As we sat and deconstructed how she was visualizing, she would sigh repeatedly. When I asked her the source of her sighs, she told us that she just couldn’t believe that the Universe would send her $100,000.00 this year. Even though she believed wholeheartedly in the idea of the Law of Attraction, she just couldn’t imagine that this money would come to her.

So Lee told her this, “For right now, just right now, until you get comfortable with the numbers, tell me what is believable to you?”

Our client thought for a moment and then said, “Ten thousand dollars.”

Then I asked, “So you believe ten thousand dollars can come to you right now… even tomorrow?” She responded, in her opinion, that it wouldn’t be a problem at all. “Then visualize that number,” I suggested.

Then came the protest, “But I want more than ten thousand.”
Lee suggested she visualize on ten thousand until money starts coming in, and then reminded her that when her survival self sees it happen, it will be easier to visualize even more money.

Make sure to visualize what you do with the wealth as well. When you begin to feel how great it is to be taking a vacation with your family, and staying in the grandest of hotels, this evokes feelings of wealth. Remember, you have to believe that your desire is real, and that it is there for you now. If what you envision isn’t something you feel can happen, create a smaller picture until you are confident enough to know that you can have it all.

3. When there is a particularly important day on the horizon, or any day for that matter, visualize the end of that day first. When you awake in the morning, spend a few moments seeing the end of the day first. Create how you want your day to actually be by “reflecting” on the day that just started. See your meeting going exactly as you wanted it to, see the checks that came in the mail, and don’t forget to thank the Universe. By thanking the Universe before it happens, this tells the Universe that you know that it actually will. Visualize the end of day first thing every morning, and you will begin to see your days merge into the exact picture you intend.

4. When you just have “one of those days” where you just can’t concentrate on any form of visualization, then don’t. Just sit still and clear your mind and reflect thoughts of peace, and happiness. This will bring you peaceful and happy moments from the Universe, and will connect you with the All that Is. By just being quiet and still, you are moving closer to attaining your desire. This is the time when some great insights will arrive, as well.

5. Visualizing doesn’t require you to sit in one spot. A great visualization technique that Lee and I engage in is really simple, but extremely effective. When we come home after a long day of work, we just imagine that our life is exactly as we prefer it. We just become what it is that we desire.

For instance, if you desire a new home with brand new rugs and furnishings, then when you arrive home from work, see that your current home is entirely the new home you desire. The new rugs are there, the bank account is golden, and your mate is right there next to you, just as happy and content as you are. Just “being” can be just as effective as sitting on your bed meditating upon whatever you desire. Give it a try. It’s a lot of fun to take a look in your closet and imagine it full of brand new clothes complete with the tags.

These are just a few tips to help you move forward as you continue to attain what you desire through the Law of Attraction.

And just one more thing: If you do have a wandering mind monkey while visualizing, don’t beat yourself up over it. Each moment is a new moment to create and to just start up again. The more you visualize and let the mind chatter pass, the more proficient you will become in releasing the chatter as you only focus on your desires.

Beth and her husband, Lee, are instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction to attain what you desire in life.

For more information, please visit: http://www.bethandleemccain.com